Submitting For Bambis

Things To Keep In Mind

The Submissive Has All The Power It's a hot fantasy to think about dominants as all-powerful and all controlling, but in real, established kink dynamics, this can be a fairly damaging stance for the sub to take. A kink or hypnosis scene should be guided in some way, shape, or form, even with self play. There is not really an easy way to give up control to someone if you do not understand your own limits, needs, wants, and desires. Know Who You Are Outside of Play Bambi might be X, Y, and Z, this is true. Your usual self outside of trance has wants, needs, and desires too, and ideally they should be respected and honored as much as they can be. The most fulfilled submissives still do and say things for themselves. A tiny bit of independence goes a long way in keeping Bambi play healthy and fun for you. Bambi Audios/A Bambi Dom Had Me Do Something I Didn't Want It is extremely important for you as a Bambi to field who you play with. Bad actors and abusive dominants DO exist in this space, and if you aren't careful, there is a very real possibility you could get hurt. It's a good idea to build a small circle of kinky friends who you can check in with periodically. If something happens to your mind during play that you weren't expecting/didn't fully want, then it's a good idea to check in with yourself and make sure that you are okay. Which leads me to my next point. This Feels Bad. I'm Not Having Fun If you get here, it is not your fault. You aren't a bad submissive, you aren't a bad Bambi. Prime's Bambi audios can be overwhelming, and take up a lot of serotonin and mental energy. Community audios made by Bambi-themed creators also employ a lot of audio techniques that aren't frequently employed by the hypnokink community at large, and they can be very intense. Do not ever feel bad for needing to take a break, or step back for a bit. ```Please do try not to isolate.``` If you have reached a point in your exploration that does not feel good or healthy, you need that support network to help you through it. -The Lady Bim